Today we watched a documentary about teenagers and their use of social media and the internet. After watching this tv program, I realized that young children who grow up now are used to having a computer at home.
Parents and grandparents always refer to the time when there were no computers or televisions at all. As a kid, I couldn't imagine people could only watch television, if they were lucky to have a neighbour with one in the living room. Nowadays, there are almost no households without television. Most households will have a computer or at least one laptop. The thing I remember clearly from the documentary is a mother who described her situation when the family came home. They would either be in their room, or all behind a laptop. She was worried about the amount of social time is spent behind the computer instead of real life contact. Personally, I think she has a good point on that. I think it's important to spent quality family time together and that's not possible if everybody is doing something on their own.
On the other hand, I would not blame social media sites like facebook. Another mother was strongly against this new type of media, which is very popular among teenagers. I think, and most of my classmates would agree, that she was overreacting. She checked everything her children did on the computer, what sites they had been on and even inform other parents when she found an indication of inappopriate behaviour. She thought that social media was a curse. Even though internet brings many dangers, like false identities, it has also brought us so many improvements. The social media sites are mostly used by teenagers in a way they can keep contact with their friends. Instead of a phone, which you have to pay for, internet has brought us cheaper ways of contacting: e-mail, facebook, twitter and instant messenger for example. Because children and young adults grew up with these kind of websites, we are aware of how to use them and what not to do. Young people often deal easier with difficulties on the computer than people who are 40 years or older. This is because that generation grew up in the time with no computer.
This brings us to another part of the documentary in which children in Asia were taught how to use a computer at a very young age. I do think it's important that children are aware of the dangers, but this was almost scary. Maybe the computer can take over a bit too much in our lives.
Internet may have its advantages and disadvantages. Think of the free access to information with the help of wikipedia and google. Teachers can make their lessons more modern, keeping the attention of the students, by using digital media. People can keep in touch with their friends with facebook and hotmail. Danger can be found everywhere, also on the internet, but as long as we are aware of this internet can make our lives so much easier. Older people may have more problems with this new kind of technology, but when you're growing up online you'll notice what a difference a computer can make.